Friendship/Love/Life is Mutual Understanding

TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.

A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call.

She answered, 'Public Utilities Board.' There was silence. She repeated, 'PUB.' There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she heard a lady's voice, 'Oh, so this is PUB.

Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is.'

Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just 'hello' instead of "PUB".

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NO POINTING FINGERS

A man asked his father-in-law, 'Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?'

The father-in-law answered in a smile, 'Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you.'

We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.

If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.

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CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?

A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested 'I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one.' The SDU officer said, 'your requirements, please. 'Oh, good looking, polite, humorous, sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest.' The officer listened carefully and replied, 'I understand you need television.'

There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.

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NO OVERPOWERING

Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that 'It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character. '

It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and un-pleasantness.

It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations...

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RIGHT SPEECH

There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that 'A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation. Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.

A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, 'Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school.' On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, 'Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker. 'She answered,' You should appreciate that you married me. Other wise, he will be the millionaire and not you.'

Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.

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PERSONAL PERCEPTION

Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, 'Very stupid. Why neither of them rides on the donkey? 'Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, 'The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?' Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.

Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, 'How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman.' The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey.

Then, they met a young man. He commented, 'Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you.' Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.

It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and ever will be in the future.

Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear...

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BE PATIENT

This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, and hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.

Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, 'Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck.' Then he asked, 'but when are my fingers going to grow back?' The father went home & committed suicide.

Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired... Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.

People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

'Good Life starts only when you stop wanting a better One' 'Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away'

'POSITIVE pictures come out from NEGATIVES developed in the DARK room. So, when you find yourself LONELY and in DARK, please remind yourself that GOD is working on a BEAUTIFUL picture.'

** aku cedok cite nih dari email opismate aku send kat aku pagi tadi. Sangat memberi impact kat aku..bagi aku amatla penting dalam sesuatu perhubungan itu.. hubungan dengan keluarga, suami, kawan2 dan sesape ajela yang kite sayang..

hope dapat memberi manfaat pada ANDA juga.. :)

jangan la abis dulu biskut raya oiiii!

Semalam & hari nih aku dapat kuih2 raya yang telah diorder dari bebudak opis nih. Rasa gerammm aje tengok biskut2 raya nih, nak aje aku ngap sebijik dua..hehe..

Choc cookies yang order dari cik Mira telah selamat aku & Lokman bedal sampai separuh balang..hehehe, tak sompekk la tunggu raya gamaknyerrr, selamat kiteorang abiskan..haihhh, perangai sungguh!

Semua biskut yang aku order dah sampai, kecuali Blueberry Cheese Tart, tu nak dekat2 cuti nanti kang baru dapat, cos tart tu tak tahan lama..kena makan fresh2 baru layann..

Aku order banyak2 nih bukan untuk aku aje, dah plan nak kasik 2 balang kat MIL, 2 balang lagi untuk Ibu/Abah aku..,fair la kan? hehe..tapi masalahnyer taktau nak kasik depa yang mane satu..balance tuh letak kat umah aku la, kot2 nanti ada je kawan2 nak menyinggah, haaa, kena la ada biskut raya gak.

Biskut Raya yang aku beli tahun ini ;

1) Choc Milk Bar

2) Caramel Ball

3) Almond Crunchies

4) Tart Nenas

5) Batang Buruk

6) Mini Popia Goreng

7) Blueberry Cheese Tart

8) Choc Chip Cookies (selamatttt di makan,hehe)

Semoga biskut2 ini dapat di makan di pagi raya, bukan di pagi esok!? :)

Feveret aku masa kecik2 dulu ialah Batang Buruk, so tahun nih first time aku beli sendiri..selama nih dok orang tua yang beli..hehe, takpun makan kat umah orang. Kakak nih jual murah RM15 aje sepeket. Lagi satu kuih Bahulu..kalu dapat yang ranggup2 then cecah dengan kopi ker, huiiii....terangkattt!! Mane nak cari Bahulu yang sedap nih yer?

okk dah melalut.., kurang nikmat puasa aku karang cite pasal makanan..

nota kaki: biskut raya dah ok, tinggal tudung raya aje takder lagi..esok kot g cari.

oh ye, opis kasik 2 pack sarung angpau..first time diaorang kasik sampul duit..hurmm, kena ek kasik duit kat kanak2?? hehee, kalu tak kasik tak dosa kan??hahahaha.. :P

Bekas Hantaran Kahwin for Rent & to Let go

Semalam aku kabinet rumah, then aku keluarkan bekas2 hantaran yang aku simpan elok dalam kabinet tuh..hurmm, terus aku terpikir untuk sewa kan benda2 nih. kot2 la ada yang nak kawen, tapi rasa tak nak membazir bab hantaran nih, so bleh arr nak sewa bekas2 nih..

Bakul2 flower - Bunga2 pink tu aku tambah sendiri, kalau taknak bunga2 nih leh cabut, deco la ikut warna tema sendiri nanti..

Kotak bentuk love tu , dulu aku bubuh coklat

Sangkar putih tuh leh bubuh jam tangan, cincin dll

Bekas kecik bulat tuh dulu aku bubuh mas kahwin (gulung2 kecik , ikat dgn riben)..boleh jugak bubuh accesories lain

ikut kreativiti masing2 la..

Each item aku sewakan RM10 sahaja

tempoh sewaan dalam 2 minggu sahaja

nak ambik barang, sila datang rumah/or jumpa kat sekitar kawasan Petaling Jaya

Ni item to let go..
kotak2 nih aku balut dengan kain satin hitam, di hias dgn riben silver & white flowers. If sape nak guna tema black silver, leh arr guna kotak2 nih..touch up la skit2 mane nak..

Ada 3 jenis saiz. 4 segi tepat, 4 segi panjang & Bulat

Yang ini pun aku nak let go. Malas dah nak deco pakai benda nih. Aku nak let go RM9 aje.

Sesape berminat leh email aku kat fira248@yahoo.com.

terima kasih

Weego Bottle to Let Go!

Botol susu kaca Weego warna Oren nih aku nak let go.Size kecik 4oz. nak detail pasal botol nih pegi kat SINI . Nak let go sebabnye, Tia tak mau isap puting dia yang kecik nih..dia dah biasa dengan puting Avent, so tak puas kot..lagipun mulut Tia besar/lebarrrr…hahahaha, dia tak dapat control isap puting yang kecikkk..tu pasal dia tak mau breastfeed dengan aku dah..haha..tet tet tetttttt..dah lari tajukkk!

So dari aku buat perhiasan aje botol nih dalam almari, baik la aku let go kepada sesapa yg berkenan..aku beli kat BabyIbu RM43+RM6 postage. Aku nak let go RM35 including postage. Aku baru guna sekali..puting tuh aku replace dengan puting baru, Aku ada gak puting Anakku yang sama size dengan botol nih, ada 2, so kasik semuanyer..

Sapa2 berkenan, email aku kat fira248@yahoo.com ye..

Nak let go yang warna Oren tuh..

Aktiviti berbuka puasa di Restoran Nelayan & Kunyah Cafe And MPH Warehouse Sales

Pagi nih aku sangat blurr, mungkin lepas subuh tadi aku tido terus bangun blur2, then masuk keje lewat 10 minit..hahaa..masuk opis, otak still kosong, keje tak dapat buat, so layan blog kejap..

Nak cite pasal berbuka puasa & aktiviti semalam..

Hari Isnin lepas aku berbuka dekat Restoran Nelayan, dekat Titiwangsa tu..Opismates lokman buat acara berbuka bersama2, so Lokman angkut la aku, Tia & Adik ipar skali. Kiteorang sampai sana cun2 time berbuka, jln ke KL jammed, ye la lepas opis hourkan..sesampai sana, MasyaAllah, ramai btul orang!restoran tuh mmg la besar..suasana mmg best la, tapi jadi kelam kabut sebab kerusi yg di booked tak cukup utk kiteorg bertiga..sudahnyer bergilir2 kiteorang duduk makan. Style kat sana buffet, ada steamboat, bbq, nasi campur, nasi ayam, ketiaw goreng, kuih dua tiga jenis,sate dll..air pun kena amik sendiri, air jus buahan yg fresh. Masalah nyer, sebabkan kiteorang ni dtg lambat so segala makanan tinggal saki baki..yg tinggal pun beratur skit punyer la panjang..setiap station orang kena beratur..tensen jugak la..dah la crowded dgn org, nak berjalan pun susah..haishhh..takder mood plak nak makan. Diaorg nak refill makanan pun amik masa yg lama. Even nak clearkan table pun lambat, so pinggan berlonggok2 la atas meja tu..

Sementara nak tunggu diaorang nih refill, makanla ape yang ada dulu and nasib baik opismate lokman amik steambot tuh byk2, so dapat la rasa dua tiga ketul. Memula segan jugak la, sebab aku nih tak kenal diaorang.. hehe, lambat skit nak beramah mesra. Tapi diaorang nih baik, diaorang tolong pegang Tia. Cite pasal si kecik nih, Tia sekarang tak mau sangat duduk dalam stroller, nak2 kalu tempat yang panas..jenuh nak berdukung! So budak2 nih gilir2 la dukung dia, so mak bleh la makannn dengan aman..hehe..Makanan dia ok la..standard macam tempat lain jek.

For info, per pax utk makan kat sini RM35. Kalau dapat makan byk kira murah la..tapi sebabkan ramai orang, rasa macam sesak..pastu beratur tak abis2..kena g awal2 kot kalu nak makan banyakk. Lokman cakap tak recommend tempat nih, next time tak mau pegi dah..hehehe..kalu hari biasa bleh kot pegi, tapi jangan time puasa.

On the wayy..budak kecik nih dalam keta pun tak mau duduk langsung!

Tengok luar, macam pahammm

Restoran nelayan nih cantek & besar

Bergilir2 kena dukung dia. Tia with Abah

Melalak2 kena letak dalam stroller..tensen Ummi!

Adik ipar nak bergambar dengan motor besarr..ada rombongan Bikers kat sana jugaakk